What better way to enjoy the freedom and timelessness of a summer evening than gathering around a campfire, even if you are not camping? There are s’mores to be made from roasted marshmallows, popcorn to be popped the old-fashioned way, and maybe some hobo pies to cook. Bannock can be wrapped around a hot dog for a dinner treat, and you can even bake a cake with a reflector oven.
A campfire is a chance to tap into our roots through storytelling, singing, dancing, and simply watching the fire. The warmth and light of the flames push back the surrounding darkness, creating a portal to a state of mind with tendrils reaching toward the infinite, if we let them. Stories can take us to the past of our ancestors, into the mysteries of life, and leave us chuckling over a tall tale.
If you do not have a lot of experience telling stories, start with fairy tales. Stories about wolves gobbling up little pigs and grandmothers are delightfully scary. Research “Bill Smith Adirondack Storyteller” to discover some terrific stories. My students love hearing his Split Dog story, which I tell as if my beagle, Bugle, were involved in the mishap.
I think a campfire needs an aura of the sacred. An opportunity is missed if children are allowed to fool around, yell, play with flashlights, and generally take control of the time. A campfire can bring focus and connection — something many of us need.
On recent school trips, I have been frustrated by how difficult it can be to steer a campfire gathering toward the magical and away from the mundane. I am wary of telling parents, either directly or through their children, what I think campfire etiquette should be. My mistake was not describing the campfire experience beforehand.
I forget that many parents defer to their children and resist interfering with what they consider harmless fun. Some foolery is fine and should be expected when the fire is first started, but then the elders set the tone.
We elders have history, values, and traditions to pass on — things that bind us together as families and communities. The warmth and mystery of a campfire can draw out what is truly important and give us strength. Plan a campfire night right now and invite others to join you. Remember to prepare them for an evening of stories, singing, and friendship.
Happy Summer!
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